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Day's of our Lives Chat Week (Monday 5/25/09- Friday 5/29/09)...EJ and Philip get BUSTED
Started by Dakota 4762 at 2009/05/25 01:31PMLatest post: 2009/05/30 12:47PM, Views: 415, Replies: 48
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Quote Tesstellthetruthalre: Hey everyone, thanks for all the advice...Britt and I had a talk last night, somewhat of a talk anyway...I don't want to dump all of my feelings and concerns on her at once because they are overwhelming to me, I can imagine what it will do to her. I am really trying to approach this carefully because I don't want her to shut down on me. So far it seems like she is just testing the waters as you all have said. She told me that she doesn't even like cigarettes, and that she only does it when this "new friend" is around. Right now though, it's hard for me to believe anything that she tells me. I'm trying to understand why she would experiment with cigarettes knowing the harm they can do. I also pointed out my struggle with cigarettes, and asked her if she wanted to have to go through that later in life... I know I will get through this though, it's just going to take some time! I hope you all have a great day...I have to go pretend that I have work to do! I knew it would work out. I think Tess she is being honest with you about only smoking when the new friend around. She is trying to impress this friend and we have all gone through this at one time or another. My daughter recently cut class with her "new friend" and lied and lied to me about many things like no homework etc. Well I let her see how all of this affected her grades. She went from an A avergae to a C average. Then I put a cherry on top by showing up at her school she was in gym class but was not prepared. BUT I knew doggone well she had her gym uniform in her bag why was she sitting on the sideline with an unprepared? Well I made a scene..a scene her "new friend" nor she will never forget. Needless to say her homework is being done now and she has had no more unprepareds in Gym. NOW I am not saying to take it to that level with Brit, she as I said is being honest with you IMO. My daughter was not being honest at all. They both have to rebuild our trust in them but just keep an open dialogue with her Tess. I agree with Dakota kids want boundaries and appreciate those "mean Moms" when they are adults. Bry I asked my daughter what the kids said to her after I left. She said they told her that I was a mean mom and that I don't play around  I told her yep that's the effect I was going for! LOL
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Quote speechless: Quote batmom: Good morning ladies! Lumi- I'll keep Oliver in my prayers. Speechless- I hope you feel better soon. Dakota- I would love to come to Boston, but it is not possible this year. I'm happy to hear Dakota doing well. Tess- How is Alyssa doing? The graduation was adorable. The kids did a wonderful job. My son had double ear infection and blister on one of his ear drum ( we took him to DR. in the am). He was a trooper, he sang and said his lines and I cried. The weekend was great, we went to the shore and did some of the rides. Sunday, my niece did her Communion and after the reception , we to my brother's house and the kids went swimming. Monday, went to a BBQ. The weekend go so fast. I meant to respond to this yeterday batmom (love that name BTW..I alwasy wnat to say to the bat cave batmom...LOL) The graduation sounded so sweet. Congrats to you and I hope your lil man feels better! Thanks for the well wishes I feel a little better today my back has let up but now my shoulder has started up. I hate accidents LOL! Good to see ya posting in here with us! Good morning, Ladies. I glad everyone is feeling better today. Speechless- My husband's best friend gave me that name (The Bat) because of my real name (Elvira). He says " let's go to the bat cave", all the time. I also love scary movies, ghost stories and Holloween. Tess-You sound like a great mom, keep up with the communication, I think that is very important. My daughter is almost 9 and she is already starting to test the waters. I'm already known as the mean mom and I tell her she will appreciated when she is older. Sometimes I wonder how she will be as a teen. My daughter has a friend that talked back to me and I put the girl in her place about talking back to me. Somtimes I wonder how my mom stayed sain with 9 children, I swear she is a saint. |
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Speech, you really put your foot down..awesome! I sure hope your right about Britt telling me the truth, I want to believe her, I really do..I guess it will just take time. |
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I have a little story for everyone..... While I'm helping my daughter and son doing their homework, my little angel decided to dial 911 and the operator answers the call and he hands it to me and says its for you. I told the operator that my 5 yr old called and there is no emergency. Of course they asked for my name and verified my address and 5 mins later a cop shows up at my door step ringing my doorbell. I know it was just a follow up, to make sure everything was okay. He was so scared. He will drive me to drink one day. |
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We had to put Oliver down about an hour ago. I'll tell you all more about it later when I am feeling better. Thank you all for your prayers, concern and kind words. It means so much. |
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Quote LUMIFOREVERANDEVER: We had to put Oliver down about an hour ago. I'll tell you all more about it later when I am feeling better. Thank you all for your prayers, concern and kind words. It means so much. Lumi I am so sorry to hear that. Your in my thoughts I know it must be hard but oliver is in a better place. Again so sorry to hear this |
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Quote LUMIFOREVERANDEVER: We had to put Oliver down about an hour ago. I'll tell you all more about it later when I am feeling better. Thank you all for your prayers, concern and kind words. It means so much. Lumi- I'm so sorry about Oliver. I'll keep you in my prayers. |
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It was really awful putting him down. I left work yesterday about 2pm because I knew the vet was going to call soon and I didn't want to be at work when I got the call.... |
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Quote LUMIFOREVERANDEVER: It was really awful putting him down. I left work yesterday about 2pm because I knew the vet was going to call soon and I didn't want to be at work when I got the call.... She called at about 3 and told me that his numbers got worse, his body temperature was very low and he could die on his own...she said I wouldn't let this go on for anymore than 24 hours...there was a very small chance he could improve but if it were her cat, she would go ahead and let him go. He was so out of it...not really suffering, but just kinda checked out mentally. So I hung up the phone and then I lost it. My little brother was home (he lives with us) and just hugged me and let me cry. Then I had to call my husband...I hated it that he had to get that call at work. I told him our options and he came home and just cried and cried. He loves all of our pets very much, but he had a very special relationship with Oliver. I tell ya I had atleast a 1000 smiles watching those two together. They used to play and be silly....he would talk to Oliver and Oliver would always answer. It was so cute. Once my husband calmed down, he said we should wait a day...and I told him that I didn't like the idea of Oliver's last night on earth was going to be at the vet's office and when I reminded him that he could die all by himself in the middle of the night, we decided to go ahead and do it. We got into the car and drove to the vet's office and as fate would have it, a huge semi-truck turned right in front of it and the only word on the truck, written in big red letters was....OLIVER! Can you believe that? I thought it was kinda cruel but now that I think of it, it had to be a sign from God telling us that he was ready to go. We got there and a nurse brought him in one of the rooms and we got to sit with him for about 20 minutes. We held him and kissed him and said we were so sorry about 1000 times and he was just out of it. He couldn't stand and we tried to get him to eat so just see if there was hope and we should wait an extra day and he just turned his head. After a steroid shot, a pill, and on and IV all day and he still didn't want to eat...he made the decision that he was ready to go. We stayed in the room and I just pet him and my husband looked at his beautiful face the whole time. Then he was gone. We let her take him away and stayed about 5 more minutes and just wept. Truly it was one of the hardest things I ever had to do and the second hardest decision I have made in my whole life. Life around our house will never be the same and our little family will never be the same. I miss him so much already. Last night, we drank, cried, and just told stories about Oliver. We have to keep his memory alive. He is certainly missed and will always be loved. (((((LUMI)))))) I'm so sorry....I know your pain....its so hard, one of the hardest things ever.....Check your facebook inbox honey i sent you something there. |
Dakota 4762 |
Quote Tesstellthetruthalre: Speech, you really put your foot down..awesome! I sure hope your right about Britt telling me the truth, I want to believe her, I really do..I guess it will just take time. I need to just be the mean mom and stop trying to be the opposite of what my mom was...I could never talk to her, she raised me well, but we didn't communicate at all, and that led me to want to experience things on my own. I figured if I kept communication open with my kids, and talked about everything with them, they wouldn't feel the need to go out and find out for themselves (or at least not at such a young age)...guess it doesn't matter either way... Anyway, like I said, things are working out, and they will get better. Thanks again to everyone for the advice! I think that Tony has the right idea.
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Dakota 4762 |
Quote LUMIFOREVERANDEVER: We had to put Oliver down about an hour ago. I'll tell you all more about it later when I am feeling better. Thank you all for your prayers, concern and kind words. It means so much. Lumi: I am so sorry to read this. I have tears in my eyes. Please let us know what happened. We are all here for you. I had to do this w/Lexy, my German Shepard, right after Christmas in 2004. Then,my dad died on her birthday in 2005 (June 1st).  edited tosay...Sorry. I should have read your latest post before posting this. |
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Quote LUMIFOREVERANDEVER: It was really awful putting him down. I left work yesterday about 2pm because I knew the vet was going to call soon and I didn't want to be at work when I got the call.... She called at about 3 and told me that his numbers got worse, his body temperature was very low and he could die on his own...she said I wouldn't let this go on for anymore than 24 hours...there was a very small chance he could improve but if it were her cat, she would go ahead and let him go. He was so out of it...not really suffering, but just kinda checked out mentally. So I hung up the phone and then I lost it. My little brother was home (he lives with us) and just hugged me and let me cry. Then I had to call my husband...I hated it that he had to get that call at work. I told him our options and he came home and just cried and cried. He loves all of our pets very much, but he had a very special relationship with Oliver. I tell ya I had atleast a 1000 smiles watching those two together. They used to play and be silly....he would talk to Oliver and Oliver would always answer. It was so cute. Once my husband calmed down, he said we should wait a day...and I told him that I didn't like the idea of Oliver's last night on earth was going to be at the vet's office and when I reminded him that he could die all by himself in the middle of the night, we decided to go ahead and do it. We got into the car and drove to the vet's office and as fate would have it, a huge semi-truck turned right in front of it and the only word on the truck, written in big red letters was....OLIVER! Can you believe that? I thought it was kinda cruel but now that I think of it, it had to be a sign from God telling us that he was ready to go. We got there and a nurse brought him in one of the rooms and we got to sit with him for about 20 minutes. We held him and kissed him and said we were so sorry about 1000 times and he was just out of it. He couldn't stand and we tried to get him to eat so just see if there was hope and we should wait an extra day and he just turned his head. After a steroid shot, a pill, and on and IV all day and he still didn't want to eat...he made the decision that he was ready to go. We stayed in the room and I just pet him and my husband looked at his beautiful face the whole time. Then he was gone. We let her take him away and stayed about 5 more minutes and just wept. Truly it was one of the hardest things I ever had to do and the second hardest decision I have made in my whole life. Life around our house will never be the same and our little family will never be the same. I miss him so much already. Last night, we drank, cried, and just told stories about Oliver. We have to keep his memory alive. He is certainly missed and will always be loved. I'm so sorry Lumi, sending hugs your way! |
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Quote batmom: I have a little story for everyone..... While I'm helping my daughter and son doing their homework, my little angel decided to dial 911 and the operator answers the call and he hands it to me and says its for you. I told the operator that my 5 yr old called and there is no emergency. Of course they asked for my name and verified my address and 5 mins later a cop shows up at my door step ringing my doorbell. I know it was just a follow up, to make sure everything was okay. He was so scared. He will drive me to drink one day. Now I have to go to a cold baseball field. I hope everyone has a wonderful evening. Lumi- how is oliver doing? Batmom...Alyssa did the same exact thing a few months back...right before Christmas. She was playing with an old pre-paid cell phone that belonged to my son, and it didn't have any minutes on it. I didn't realize that my son had 911 programed into his phone under his contacts, and you can call 911 from any phone whether it has minutes or not, so sure enough they sent a cop out to my house, he came in and looked at Alyssa and just smiled and left...kids are great! |
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Lumi- I'm so sorry, I can't stop crying, he sounded so sweet. I know he is a better place. My heart goes out to you. |
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