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watching the show for the first time today they are having a marathon... Boy she is sooo bossy....

New season starts tonite at 9 !

I believe Kate know that her attitude is what cause Jon to stray away from the family.... she laughed more and wasn't as anal as she used to be on tonights episode....Hopefully she will continue to change and Jon will fall back in love with her. Right now I think he resent her for all she have done to her. When you take a man pride and manhood away the feel like nothing and they will go out and find something to make them feel better as a person. I really pray that through all this they are going through both of them will change for the best and it will make their marriage stronger and this will be a great testimony to help someone else marriage. GOD CONTIUNE BLESSING THE GOSSELIN FAMILY!!!!!!!!

Just watched the premier.... I noticed a couple things.
1. They avoided each other, at the party they were at least 4 tables apart. When they were forced to be together you could have frozen popsicles, with the chill in that air.

2. Kate belittled Jon more than usual.

3. the word marriage was NEVER used but was replaced with relationship.

4. Kate did say the D word once.

I noticed Grits also that whenever Jon would say something to Kate she would walk away or just ignore him!! Also neither one of them said anything about being there for each other they were there for the Kids!! If this was a real marriage and they said they loved each other it would be different but I hate to say it but I think Jon is done with the whole situation! I kinda wonder if this isn't just a hoax to get more publicity for the show in my opinion I think that is what is happening!! JMO!!

Well i watched tonight & felt awful for Kate when she was crying..this whole situation is just sad...and when they had the party Jon was one table behin her,not 4 tables..and i noticed as well that Jon kept saying he was there for the kids..and the part when Kate mentioned it could be the last family pict they would have together,that broke my heart
i love this show and hope they work out everything.

I'm trying to figure out how a father or mother of eight young and very active children, has any time to be unfaithful to the other?

For those of you who do not believe all reality tv is edited, think of this... How many bathroom breaks have youhad to sit through? Is the show in real time? Was the sextuplets party only an hour long? Did the kids eat or did they take a plate and the food disappeared? Obviously ALL reality tv is edited if nothing else to fit time restraints.

I hope Jon & Kate make it, but if they don't I hope they make it a safe environment for thier kids. From the way it sounded last night they are going to stay together for the sake of the kids and possibly the show. As a parent I cannot say that I blame them,college for 8 would be a scary thought.

2 more things i just remembered from last night were when Kate said the kids called her the babysitter's name on accident,that would of broke my heart as well and you'd think she would finally give this book tour etc up..it's costing her alot,yes i know it takes two to make a marriage work but i just wonder how much shes gone. either way i still love the show..
another thing was when Kate admitted being too hard on Jon all these years..alot of viewers always said that.

That is not the kind of editing we were talking about. We were speaking of the actual happenings...of course the bathroom breaks and such are edited. That was also mentioned too.
I saw raw emotion, I watched it twice. I will still believe what BOTH of them say, that they were NOT unfaithful. Frankly it's none of ANYONE'S business.
I didn't see Kate belittle Jon at all, I saw him distancing himself.
They did use the word marriage, and her tears were genuine.
She said she isn't going to let them drag her down. Good for her! She has always said that she is hard on Jon, she has never denied that. That isn't why he is having issues..it's the famous life, and being alone while she travels that he has a problem with.
As someone already mentioned, he was 1 table behind her, not the exaggerated 4 as mentioned...see comments like that are what gets rumours started. People should be more careful of what they say unless they are sure they are correct...which you were not.
I saw a sweet picture of all the family, and it didn't look akward to me at all.
I saw a nice family dinner at the end, where Kate offered to make Jon a plate of food...
Nay sayers need to stop making up stuff that just simply wasn't there.
Good luck to them, I hope they get counseling and work it out.

I find it very distatefull to sell your family for fame.

Also, to air your dirty laundry in public and pretend for a whole season that everything in "nicey nicey"....

Never liked the show and always fet she was one tough cookie to deal with.

The only victims here are the kids and for what "the Love of Money".......

Imagine all the other family with kids who don't have it like them.....glad they didn't decide to air their family business on TV for all to see.

Guess the $$$ really talked and for what.

PS: If you choose to sell yourself and family on TV be prepared for society to discuss it.....afterall if it was not for their ratings they would not be getting paid.

I saw the ending and ask....what was that at the end of the show "Damage Control".

If I read right....and they were very distant with each other on screen....imagine what really is going on.......sad shame this is airing for ratings.

They need to pull the plug and "really" work on their issues...the kids should not be on TV for all to see this farce...... It's disgusting and enough is enough!

Time to think about the kids!