As the World Turns - MESSAGE BOARDS

I mean for goodness sake. What was so wrong with what Lily and Carly did? Lily wanted to spend some quality alone time with her husband; and Jack and Holden both act like they committed a crime.

OMG...I so agree! Women make plans all the time to be alone with their loves...the problem with Jack is that he wanted to feel that Carly REALLY WANTED AND NEEDED HIM...which she did; so what if Lily's plan also helped to heal some of the agnst between she and Jack? AND Holden had a great time once he took the stick out of his rear end...Unfortunately tomorrow's episode will show that both of them replaced the stick with a LOG! SHEESH...talk about anal-retentive!
Chances are...that Jack will make the plan Carly's and dump on her...it makes him feel so much like a martyr! Holden, is a little relationship-shy right now...if it had been the other way around, imo, he would have done something on the same scale to get Lily to forgive and forget and to get back on track...as a matter of fact he has done this type of thing before. That Snyder stick up the rear gets passed around regularly with everyone of them...
They all need to ask Dr. Bob if they can have a family rate to get that stick permanently removed!

Quote Angel4Life: I mean for goodness sake. What was so wrong with what Lily and Carly did? Lily wanted to spend some quality alone time with her husband; and Jack and Holden both act like they committed a crime.

Are Holden and Jack secretly gay?? I cannot think of any other reason, two adult, supposedly straight, males would get in such a tizzy over one of them getting l#$% by a beautiful woman!! They both forget their shared fun with Julia!! They are both such self righteous, whining, prigs, I can't stand either one of them
IMO
Gagal

I work for a healthcare organization. Let me know where to send the enema's since I can get them at a bulk rate. I'm so tired of Jack and his holier than thou routine. And I totally agree that Holden should be smiling since he and Lily reconnected instead of worrying about why it happened. These two a_ _ holes need to grow up, get over themselves and move on!!!! Carly and Lily can do better!!! Bring back Simon for Carly and find Lily a new exciting man!!!!

thanks...I have a problem with anyone who only continually looks in the past...the word is forgiveness...nobody says that they have to forget...I am sure neither Carly or Lily can forget how awful they always feel around these men!
I don't want them to be apart; but I really think the problem with Jack and Holden and all of the other Snyders is that they always look at others errors and NEVER look at their own!
I found myself agreeing that Lily should have said to Holden that she made arrangements to be alone with her husband for the evening...but I strongly disagree that Holden was Made to do anything he didn't want to do, whether now or later. If Lily hadn't almost died from the drugs and Holden hadn't tried to protect her from the Dusty murder, he would have had a full scale affair with Bonnie. Holden seems to forget his romantic activities at that time. As for Jack, he LOVES to feel superior and it makes him feel so Full Of Himself when he thinks he can prove he was right about Carly and all she did was help a friend, even though she tried HARD to discourage Lily in her plan. She even told Jack that, but naturally he didn't hear that part of the conversation. They are reacting so badly about this. If Holden would only see the situation as it really is...his wife went away to get her grieving over with so that she can come home and be who HE WANTS...which poses a problem...a person should be able to feel bad for the death of a very close friend. He has made Lily afraid to breathe in the wrong way for fear of losing him...THIS IS WRONG too...Holden needs to take a good look at himself and how he is a big contributor in how she behaves...fear makes one do things that are out of character. And the same with Carly except she has given up on Jack...which is his fault imo. They both need a good Kick in the behind after the enema and the surgery to remove the stick from their rears.

Quote SoapStar87:

Quote The General: OMG...I so agree! Women make plans all the time to be alone with their loves...the problem with Jack is that he wanted to feel that Carly REALLY WANTED AND NEEDED HIM...which she did; so what if Lily's plan also helped to heal some of the agnst between she and Jack? AND Holden had a great time once he took the stick out of his rear end...Unfortunately tomorrow's episode will show that both of them replaced the stick with a LOG! SHEESH...talk about anal-retentive!
Chances are...that Jack will make the plan Carly's and dump on her...it makes him feel so much like a martyr! Holden, is a little relationship-shy right now...if it had been the other way around, imo, he would have done something on the same scale to get Lily to forgive and forget and to get back on track...as a matter of fact he has done this type of thing before. That Snyder stick up the rear gets passed around regularly with everyone of them...
They all need to ask Dr. Bob if they can have a family rate to get that stick permanently removed!

Quote Angel4Life: I mean for goodness sake. What was so wrong with what Lily and Carly did? Lily wanted to spend some quality alone time with her husband; and Jack and Holden both act like they committed a crime.

I agree this helped them both

I dont see what the big deal was. I mean a lot of spouses make plans for their kids to spend the night with friends so that they can have some alone time. Jack and Holden are too wound up.

They want perfect? Why dont they just hook-up with each other?

They both seem to be riding their high horse here lately.

Oh, I totally agree that Holden and Jack are jerks!!!! No matter what, any man should feel flattered to have these two women who love them that much, that they would arrange a little alone time, for them.And, Carly and jack? He is always hanging around there anyway, so what was the big deal???He should bend over and kiss his own as s!! Please!!!!!!Women have been conniving to get a man's heart, as long as the world has been going around.They chase the man, until he catches them. That is the way it is!

granted i love both couples but The snyders really need to check themselves,Who cares if the lady's planned it,men are men and they should not judge i know i wouldnt.But it was okay when both Snyders were sniffing all over Julia,they did no wrong at all,YEAH RIGHT.where are Simon and Dusty when you needem that would serve the brokeback cousins right.LOL