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Janet is being such a bad mother right now

Started by lttlangel420 at 2009/09/18 06:29PM
Latest post: 2009/10/19 08:38AM, Views: 1910, Replies: 111
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#31   2009/09/30 05:00PM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
Lady53
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As far as Janet and Jack and uncle Ralph goes I'm wondering what happened to the real Jack Snyder. The real Jack Snyder before Janet would see exactly who and what kind of uncle ol uncle Ralph really is. When Janet said to Jack that he really isn't an uncle just somebody who helped out people in the neighborhood, it would have sent off alarm bells and whistles in Jack's brain. Heck even Henry and Craig knew what kind of person it is after only just meeting him and a few words. Even Rosanna has a suspecion about him. I don't know why Jack is condoning Janet bringing him into the mix with who gets to adopt the baby.

#32   2009/09/30 11:52PM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
2577Echo
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Between Janet and Emily, I think poor Liberty is going to have some sort of a breakdown if they don't back off. She needs to be around a sensible, calm person who does not have a personal stake in this, other than an interest in her welfare. I wonder if she will run off somewhere, maybe with Parker again? I also see Jack being badgered; I wonder if and when he will say "Enough."

#33   2009/10/01 07:21AM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
Valinator1
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Quote 2577Echo: Between Janet and Emily, I think poor Liberty is going to have some sort of a breakdown if they don't back off. She needs to be around a sensible, calm person who does not have a personal stake in this, other than an interest in her welfare. I wonder if she will run off somewhere, maybe with Parker again? I also see Jack being badgered; I wonder if and when he will say "Enough."


I think she's already headed for some sort of breakdown. Who knows she may lose the baby. God there's been so many baby losses on the show already, but I'm thinking that she might end up losing the baby and or run away as you said w/Parker.

#34   2009/10/01 07:52AM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
jemma
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I too was a teenage mum and have lived to regret it every day of my life so having a kid as a kid is not good either.
I have gone down both roads and neither are the correct answer ...........Janet is a jerk period!
she is why kids do not go to their mums for advice in this situation. she is a poster mum for bad mum.
I agree unprotected sex is a bad thing in this day and age with all the ways out there to protect aganist it.
that said this s/l is just silly for 2009.
I am sure there were better ways to get the whole teenage pg. epidemic across.
we all should agree dif. opionions make the world go round .
that said it is just a show .

#35   2009/10/01 08:24AM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
Joan E
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I was hoping that something would happen and we would find out that Parker is the daddy after all. As far as Janet goes.....I'm glad I didn't have to tell my mom something like that. She would have flipped out. There's not much telling what she would have done.

#36   2009/10/05 06:52PM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
2577Echo
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The question never arose among the girls I knew in the small town where I grew up, because the boys knew our Dads would probably half-kill them, not to mention what brothers would do. Also, a couple of the boys in my class said their Dads had told them they could kiss college good-by if they ever got a girl in trouble. It would be marriage and get a job to support your family. Of course, this was a number of years ago.

My son's 6th grade had a class for the boys on the cost of raising a child, all the way through college. His comment was, "No way. I'd rather have a Harley." They also had a similar one for the girls. I don't know what the reaction was.

#37   2009/10/06 12:50PM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
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First of all I think we can agree to disagree on what our personal opinion of abortion is. For me I believe that it's murder. The point is, is that Liberty is only 17, and in most if not all states she is still a minor. It's not her body until she's 18. That's what my mom always told me when I wanted to do something or go somewhere that I couldn't go - I would always come back with but it's my life, and she would say not until I turn 18. Until then it was my parent's life and they had the right to tell me what I could and couldn't do.

#38   2009/10/06 02:27PM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
2577Echo
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I worked as a temp for an attorney who was representing a couple in an open adoption. It was heartbreaking to see the young people. The mother was under pressure from her parents to give up her baby, and the young father, whose permission was also required, was completely bewildered. The first thing the attorney did was recommend that each one consult an attorney separately, who would advise each one of them exactly what would be happening and counsel them appropriately. He then recommended several who specialized in working with young people, and the adopting couple offered to pay the fees. I was not there to see the final outcome, but I do think this was sensible advice. Maybe Liberty needs to do the same thing. Poor girl.

#39   2009/10/06 06:27PM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
bigtimesoapfan
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Quote MelMel1: First of all I think we can agree to disagree on what our personal opinion of abortion is. For me I believe that it's murder. The point is, is that Liberty is only 17, and in most if not all states she is still a minor. It's not her body until she's 18. That's what my mom always told me when I wanted to do something or go somewhere that I couldn't go - I would always come back with but it's my life, and she would say not until I turn 18. Until then it was my parent's life and they had the right to tell me what I could and couldn't do.


ITA!! with the whole post! I think too that if child is under 18 parents have to sign adoption papers as their gurdian.

#40   2009/10/06 06:44PM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
Tammer
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Quote MelMel1: First of all I think we can agree to disagree on what our personal opinion of abortion is. For me I believe that it's murder. The point is, is that Liberty is only 17, and in most if not all states she is still a minor. It's not her body until she's 18. That's what my mom always told me when I wanted to do something or go somewhere that I couldn't go - I would always come back with but it's my life, and she would say not until I turn 18. Until then it was my parent's life and they had the right to tell me what I could and couldn't do.


Wow what a horrible thing for your mother to say to you! Sorry. If that were true then ANY abusive parent could do as they please to their child and it would be ok.
Janet is a mess...this is NOT her choice, and she should butt the hell out! Liberty should NOT be forced to have a child she does not want.
It's fine that some don't believe in abortion..however that is not Liberty's belief. It's her mothers.
I could NEVER force that kind of life altering decision on my daughter! JMO

#41   2009/10/07 05:20AM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
Valinator1
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Quote Tammer:
Quote MelMel1: First of all I think we can agree to disagree on what our personal opinion of abortion is. For me I believe that it's murder. The point is, is that Liberty is only 17, and in most if not all states she is still a minor. It's not her body until she's 18. That's what my mom always told me when I wanted to do something or go somewhere that I couldn't go - I would always come back with but it's my life, and she would say not until I turn 18. Until then it was my parent's life and they had the right to tell me what I could and couldn't do.


Wow what a horrible thing for your mother to say to you! Sorry. If that were true then ANY abusive parent could do as they please to their child and it would be ok.
Janet is a mess...this is NOT her choice, and she should butt the hell out! Liberty should NOT be forced to have a child she does not want.
It's fine that some don't believe in abortion..however that is not Liberty's belief. It's her mothers.
I could NEVER force that kind of life altering decision on my daughter! JMO


ITa on your post...I don't have any children, but if I did I could never force them to have it if they didn't want to and what makes me so mad is that Lib agreed for Paul and Emily to raise the child, but Janet wants to raise it as her own? GMAFB! She's not thinking of her daughters feelings at all. Janet is being very selfish and I think she's gonna drive Lib off the deep end!

#42   2009/10/07 07:40AM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
lttlangel420
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I have nothing against grandparents who raise their grandchildren. If that's the best situation for the child them I'm all for it.

But Liberty is already being forced to have a child she doesn't want/ so it should at least be her choice who gets to raise the baby. It's 100% cruel that Janet would even ask Liberty if she could raise her baby for her. Liberty doesn't want the baby!!!! She sure as hell doesn't want the child living in the same house as her.

I read somewhere that someone thought Janet was only doing it so she could keep a hold on Liberty and so she would never leave her. But I think it would be the opposite, I think it would totally push Liberty away. And I think its going to turn into Liberty thinking Janet is going to choose the baby over her. Janet can either keep her daughter in her life, or raise her grandchild, she can't have both.

#43   2009/10/07 11:11AM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
Tammer
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Quote Valinator1:
Quote Tammer:
Quote MelMel1: First of all I think we can agree to disagree on what our personal opinion of abortion is. For me I believe that it's murder. The point is, is that Liberty is only 17, and in most if not all states she is still a minor. It's not her body until she's 18. That's what my mom always told me when I wanted to do something or go somewhere that I couldn't go - I would always come back with but it's my life, and she would say not until I turn 18. Until then it was my parent's life and they had the right to tell me what I could and couldn't do.


Wow what a horrible thing for your mother to say to you! Sorry. If that were true then ANY abusive parent could do as they please to their child and it would be ok.
Janet is a mess...this is NOT her choice, and she should butt the hell out! Liberty should NOT be forced to have a child she does not want.
It's fine that some don't believe in abortion..however that is not Liberty's belief. It's her mothers.
I could NEVER force that kind of life altering decision on my daughter! JMO


ITa on your post...I don't have any children, but if I did I could never force them to have it if they didn't want to and what makes me so mad is that Lib agreed for Paul and Emily to raise the child, but Janet wants to raise it as her own? GMAFB! She's not thinking of her daughters feelings at all. Janet is being very selfish and I think she's gonna drive Lib off the deep end!


Yup I agree Val.

#44   2009/10/07 12:34PM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
calliope
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Your body is your body!!!! Not your parents! You may screw things up with that body that will have profound effects on you and your parents but it is YOUR body. YOU will suffer the biggest consequense, no matter what your decision.

Janet is going to push Liberty into something drastic if she doesn't get a grip on herself. And Jack sittin' around drinking a beer nodding his head at all Janet's ideas!!!! Where is the jack that used to jump all over Carly when he disagreed?

#45   2009/10/07 12:45PM
Re: Janet is being such a bad mother right now
bigtimesoapfan
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Quote Tammer:
Quote MelMel1: First of all I think we can agree to disagree on what our personal opinion of abortion is. For me I believe that it's murder. The point is, is that Liberty is only 17, and in most if not all states she is still a minor. It's not her body until she's 18. That's what my mom always told me when I wanted to do something or go somewhere that I couldn't go - I would always come back with but it's my life, and she would say not until I turn 18. Until then it was my parent's life and they had the right to tell me what I could and couldn't do.


Wow what a horrible thing for your mother to say to you! Sorry. If that were true then ANY abusive parent could do as they please to their child and it would be ok.
Janet is a mess...this is NOT her choice, and she should butt the hell out! Liberty should NOT be forced to have a child she does not want.
It's fine that some don't believe in abortion..however that is not Liberty's belief. It's her mothers.
I could NEVER force that kind of life altering decision on my daughter! JMO


Are you kidding me? My youngest is 8 and God forbid I would never support her murdering her child so I guess im a bad parent too! I mean really God forbid we teach our children that "our actions have consequences!!" When My oldest trned 13 I got him a movie clled kids. I think he's smart enough to know now Protection protection protection! My mom actually told me in HS(especially as all my friends were getting knocked up, If I got pregnant I would have to give it up for adoption that did the trick for me! I kept my legs firmly together!! A friend of mine's daughter actaully had one as a young teen and abandoned it in another state(can you imagine getting that call? It was all over the news We honestly ddn't know she was pregnent and now 5 years later she has 2 more but she kept these 2. what gets me is when she refers to her boys as her only children.
We need to teach our children to be responsible for their actions because not everything can/should be flushed down the drain!!
It really boggles my mind that any woman who has given birth to a child can condone abortion As a mother myself I would've died for my children even when I carried them(I gave up woodstock back in 99 because my doctor said I could loose my son(I was 8 weeks pregnant)I was on bed rest and even got demoted from lead teacher to asst. when I was able to go back. I would do anything for my children! So it really throws me for a loop reading stuff like this!

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