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Standing by Janet......

Started by nonniepat at 2009/09/16 11:44AM
Latest post: 2009/10/05 01:45PM, Views: 1542, Replies: 94
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#1   2009/09/16 11:44AM
Standing by Janet......
nonniepat
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I am sure that no one will agree with me here but Janet is doing the right thing with Liberty. Teri needs to but out she's not a mother, Jack needs to be supportive but let Janet handle it like she let him handle helping Carly and the kids (or tried to). Brad needs to let Janet handle this as well. Janet knows Liberty very well and I'm sure that raising Liberty alone Janet met all kinds of people and has seen what abortion can do to a woman.
I for one am proud that Janet is so conscious of human life (especially her child and grandchild) to help her daughter to realize the implications of this decision. From one who has been in Janet's shoes I can understand both sides of this and I'm sure Janet can too. She sacrificed her family for Liberty and if she hadn't there would be no Liberty.

#2   2009/09/16 11:38PM
Re: Standing by Janet......
sugar543_99
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Quote nonniepat: I am sure that no one will agree with me here but Janet is doing the right thing with Liberty. Teri needs to but out she's not a mother, Jack needs to be supportive but let Janet handle it like she let him handle helping Carly and the kids (or tried to). Brad needs to let Janet handle this as well. Janet knows Liberty very well and I'm sure that raising Liberty alone Janet met all kinds of people and has seen what abortion can do to a woman.
I for one am proud that Janet is so conscious of human life (especially her child and grandchild) to help her daughter to realize the implications of this decision. From one who has been in Janet's shoes I can understand both sides of this and I'm sure Janet can too. She sacrificed her family for Liberty and if she hadn't there would be no Liberty.


first of all I do not understand why nooone posted on this thread. l really believe that this storyline can bring a lot to this show. Liberty can really bring out her acting abiiities, that I know that she has, This storyline alone has to show the young vewiers what can happen in real life and what options there are to behold with

#3   2009/09/17 03:50AM
Re: Standing by Janet......
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Quote nonniepat: I am sure that no one will agree with me here but Janet is doing the right thing with Liberty. Teri needs to but out she's not a mother, Jack needs to be supportive but let Janet handle it like she let him handle helping Carly and the kids (or tried to). Brad needs to let Janet handle this as well. Janet knows Liberty very well and I'm sure that raising Liberty alone Janet met all kinds of people and has seen what abortion can do to a woman.
I for one am proud that Janet is so conscious of human life (especially her child and grandchild) to help her daughter to realize the implications of this decision. From one who has been in Janet's shoes I can understand both sides of this and I'm sure Janet can too. She sacrificed her family for Liberty and if she hadn't there would be no Liberty.


Ok I will post!! I totally disagree with you. I am a mother and if my daughter came to me telling me she messed up and got pregnant, the first thing I'd do, after I regain my composure, is listen to her. I'd then give her all the options and we would go from there. However, I'd never tell her 'oh been there! done that! you can too!' Like Brad said, it is her choice.

#4   2009/09/17 07:58AM
Re: Standing by Janet......
Tammer
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Quote EVSCNB:
Quote nonniepat: I am sure that no one will agree with me here but Janet is doing the right thing with Liberty. Teri needs to but out she's not a mother, Jack needs to be supportive but let Janet handle it like she let him handle helping Carly and the kids (or tried to). Brad needs to let Janet handle this as well. Janet knows Liberty very well and I'm sure that raising Liberty alone Janet met all kinds of people and has seen what abortion can do to a woman.
I for one am proud that Janet is so conscious of human life (especially her child and grandchild) to help her daughter to realize the implications of this decision. From one who has been in Janet's shoes I can understand both sides of this and I'm sure Janet can too. She sacrificed her family for Liberty and if she hadn't there would be no Liberty.


Ok I will post!! I totally disagree with you. I am a mother and if my daughter came to me telling me she messed up and got pregnant, the first thing I'd do, after I regain my composure, is listen to her. I'd then give her all the options and we would go from there. However, I'd never tell her 'oh been there! done that! you can too!' Like Brad said, it is her choice.


ITA with you! I never posted because I feel Janet is DEAD wrong! she needs to support Liberty, and not visit her beliefs on her daughter. Its ok to give her ALL the options, but telling her she is NOT having an abortion is just wrong. Janet had a choice, so should Liberty. Mom should support but let her decide on her own, like so many posters have said..Libby seems to be a very smart girl, she knows what she wants.

#5   2009/09/17 09:39AM
Re: Standing by Janet......
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I'm with you guys too! Janet can certainly make her views known but ultimately it is Liberty who has to live with the decision. Janet is trying to bulldoze in and make it about her life.

#6   2009/09/17 02:47PM
Re: Standing by Janet......
Stace7
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Its hard for me to comment one way or another. I am so glad i never had to make that decision. I think I lean a little more towards janets side. But I wont hold it against Liberty is she goes through with it.

#7   2009/09/18 11:49AM
Re: Standing by Janet......
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Well my thought is "you play you pay!" If she doesn't want it then she just needs to give it up for adoption there are to many couples out there that can not have a child that would love to have hers she needs to deal with it and go on...

#8   2009/09/18 12:33PM
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Quote akwood: Well my thought is "you play you pay!" If she doesn't want it then she just needs to give it up for adoption there are to many couples out there that can not have a child that would love to have hers she needs to deal with it and go on...



The same could be said for the fact that there are more children that need adopting than there are parents to adopt them because most want babies. So sad.

#9   2009/09/19 07:30AM
Re: Standing by Janet......
flowergirl48
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janet is doing the right thingh.i am against abortion very very much just like janet is so go janet.

#10   2009/09/19 09:23AM
Re: Standing by Janet......
hello goodbye
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Quote Tammer:
Quote EVSCNB:
Quote nonniepat: I am sure that no one will agree with me here but Janet is doing the right thing with Liberty. Teri needs to but out she's not a mother, Jack needs to be supportive but let Janet handle it like she let him handle helping Carly and the kids (or tried to). Brad needs to let Janet handle this as well. Janet knows Liberty very well and I'm sure that raising Liberty alone Janet met all kinds of people and has seen what abortion can do to a woman.
I for one am proud that Janet is so conscious of human life (especially her child and grandchild) to help her daughter to realize the implications of this decision. From one who has been in Janet's shoes I can understand both sides of this and I'm sure Janet can too. She sacrificed her family for Liberty and if she hadn't there would be no Liberty.


Ok I will post!! I totally disagree with you. I am a mother and if my daughter came to me telling me she messed up and got pregnant, the first thing I'd do, after I regain my composure, is listen to her. I'd then give her all the options and we would go from there. However, I'd never tell her 'oh been there! done that! you can too!' Like Brad said, it is her choice.


ITA with you! I never posted because I feel Janet is DEAD wrong! she needs to support Liberty, and not visit her beliefs on her daughter. Its ok to give her ALL the options, but telling her she is NOT having an abortion is just wrong. Janet had a choice, so should Liberty. Mom should support but let her decide on her own, like so many posters have said..Libby seems to be a very smart girl, she knows what she wants.


Liberty is 17. A CHILD in the eyes of the law. She still lives under her mamas roof. Janet pays her bills. Janet has EVERY RIGHT to tell her daughter what to do. Liberty does not understand the long term effect this will have on her.

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#11   2009/09/19 09:24AM
Re: Standing by Janet......
hello goodbye
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Quote nonniepat: I am sure that no one will agree with me here but Janet is doing the right thing with Liberty. Teri needs to but out she's not a mother, Jack needs to be supportive but let Janet handle it like she let him handle helping Carly and the kids (or tried to). Brad needs to let Janet handle this as well. Janet knows Liberty very well and I'm sure that raising Liberty alone Janet met all kinds of people and has seen what abortion can do to a woman.
I for one am proud that Janet is so conscious of human life (especially her child and grandchild) to help her daughter to realize the implications of this decision. From one who has been in Janet's shoes I can understand both sides of this and I'm sure Janet can too. She sacrificed her family for Liberty and if she hadn't there would be no Liberty.


I agree 110%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#12   2009/09/19 09:39AM
Re: Standing by Janet......
Tammer
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Quote hello goodbye:
Quote Tammer:
Quote EVSCNB:
Quote nonniepat: I am sure that no one will agree with me here but Janet is doing the right thing with Liberty. Teri needs to but out she's not a mother, Jack needs to be supportive but let Janet handle it like she let him handle helping Carly and the kids (or tried to). Brad needs to let Janet handle this as well. Janet knows Liberty very well and I'm sure that raising Liberty alone Janet met all kinds of people and has seen what abortion can do to a woman.
I for one am proud that Janet is so conscious of human life (especially her child and grandchild) to help her daughter to realize the implications of this decision. From one who has been in Janet's shoes I can understand both sides of this and I'm sure Janet can too. She sacrificed her family for Liberty and if she hadn't there would be no Liberty.


Ok I will post!! I totally disagree with you. I am a mother and if my daughter came to me telling me she messed up and got pregnant, the first thing I'd do, after I regain my composure, is listen to her. I'd then give her all the options and we would go from there. However, I'd never tell her 'oh been there! done that! you can too!' Like Brad said, it is her choice.


ITA with you! I never posted because I feel Janet is DEAD wrong! she needs to support Liberty, and not visit her beliefs on her daughter. Its ok to give her ALL the options, but telling her she is NOT having an abortion is just wrong. Janet had a choice, so should Liberty. Mom should support but let her decide on her own, like so many posters have said..Libby seems to be a very smart girl, she knows what she wants.


Liberty is 17. A CHILD in the eyes of the law. She still lives under her mamas roof. Janet pays her bills. Janet has EVERY RIGHT to tell her daughter what to do. Liberty does not understand the long term effect this will have on her.


NO she does not have that right!
Janet does not have the right to tell her daughter to have a baby she doesn't want! Even to give a baby up for adoption is a risk, most girls decide to keep the baby rather than give it up to new parents.
Liberty made a mistake, she does NOT have to pay for it the rest of her life. Is that would would want for your child?

It's all well and good that some don't approve of abortion, but others do and NO ONE has the right to try to make them change their views.
There are plenty of women that have abortions and never let it ruin their lives, or even think of it again.
It's Liberty's body and regardless of her mother supporting her she has the right to choose.

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#13   2009/09/19 09:52AM
Re: Standing by Janet......
new life
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I still beleive that it is Liberty's choice.
She has more than one option.
She can get an abortion after being well informed of the after effects of her emotions.
She could have the baby and let her mother help raise the child till she is ready.
She can give the baby up for adoption.
I could see why Janet would not want her grandchild aborted,But that are the chances you have to take with having a daughter in your life.
oNE OF The most important thing isthat Libert is satisfied with what ever she decides.
I have had this exspeience and it has never haughted me.I made the right choice for myself do to and alcohlic and drug using husband.Many things could have gone or been wrong with the child.I had ask God to guide me andd that is why I beleive that I have no regrets.My daughter chose on abortion with she decided for similiar reasons.But now we have a great handsome young man/child in our lives and all has worked out fine.
It is not just about the choice it is about other issues that could cause major problems down the road.
Nobody really knows anything about the father so who knows what lays in his Blood and DNA.
Bottom line it is not just about is it for the good of the mother or grandparents it is for the quality of the child that is in Liberty's boddy and how healthy the baby could or could not be.

THAT IS WHY IT IS CALLED CHOICE.Many avenues to research before a decision .Which as we all know that Janet is hoping to but enough time so Liberty will be to far along.Plus the fact. The way I see it Janet is pushing Liberty to possiabley go to the wrong clinic and maake it more dangerous.Up and up clinic make sure that the mother to be is aware of all or as much of what the future can hold physically ,mentally and sucurity.
Liberty just be well informed and be safe and Janet back off.You are being selfish for your self and not helping Liberty as far as I see it.Ambushing her with anyone she can get to do her dirty work.BAD BAD BAD MOTHER.

#14   2009/09/19 10:12AM
Re: Standing by Janet......
Tammer
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Quote new life: I still beleive that it is Liberty's choice.
She has more than one option.
She can get an abortion after being well informed of the after effects of her emotions.
She could have the baby and let her mother help raise the child till she is ready.
She can give the baby up for adoption.
I could see why Janet would not want her grandchild aborted,But that are the chances you have to take with having a daughter in your life.
oNE OF The most important thing isthat Libert is satisfied with what ever she decides.
I have had this exspeience and it has never haughted me.I made the right choice for myself do to and alcohlic and drug using husband.Many things could have gone or been wrong with the child.I had ask God to guide me andd that is why I beleive that I have no regrets.My daughter chose on abortion with she decided for similiar reasons.But now we have a great handsome young man/child in our lives and all has worked out fine.
It is not just about the choice it is about other issues that could cause major problems down the road.
Nobody really knows anything about the father so who knows what lays in his Blood and DNA.
Bottom line it is not just about is it for the good of the mother or grandparents it is for the quality of the child that is in Liberty's boddy and how healthy the baby could or could not be.

THAT IS WHY IT IS CALLED CHOICE.Many avenues to research before a decision .Which as we all know that Janet is hoping to but enough time so Liberty will be to far along.Plus the fact. The way I see it Janet is pushing Liberty to possiabley go to the wrong clinic and maake it more dangerous.Up and up clinic make sure that the mother to be is aware of all or as much of what the future can hold physically ,mentally and sucurity.
Liberty just be well informed and be safe and Janet back off.You are being selfish for your self and not helping Liberty as far as I see it.Ambushing her with anyone she can get to do her dirty work.BAD BAD BAD MOTHER.


That had to be a hard choice to make, thanks for sharing your story. And I agree, that choice is not always something you regret forever.

#15   2009/09/19 02:01PM
Re: Standing by Janet......
hello goodbye
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How is it NOT Janet's right? That is her underage daughter. She has every right to put a stop to it. Liberty can give the baby up for adoption. That is what is wrong with the kids today, parents have no rights.

If she was my kid I would do the something Janet is doing. I would NOT allow her to have an abortion. It would not be an option. She made a mistake grow up and deal with it. Murder is not the answer!

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