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Someone please explain it to me, what gives Jack the right to drill Carly?
Started by princessvcb at 2009/06/18 11:12AMLatest post: 2009/06/20 09:26AM, Views: 441, Replies: 18
Someone please explain it to me, what gives Jack the right to drill Carly?
princessvcb |
who the HE-- does Jack think he is Carly's Father or god forbid her husband. He needs to stay in his lane. That's one of Carly's biggest problem Jack and trying to keep his approval, I say the HE-- with jack and what he thinks....... |
Nichole43119 |
I have to agree. I think he is bored over there with Janet and secretly misses the drama and the fire that Carly brings. He sees Craig and Carly together and he is scared to death that Carly may have finally met a man who accepts and gets her. Janet needs to wake up. If your man is still obessed about his ex wife's love life after a year, then maybe he is just isn't over her yet. |
keytonblows |
what gives Jack the right to drill Carly? |
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princessvcb |
1st lets address acholism is a sickness then address that, jack WANT HIS CAKE & ICE CREAM TOO this is not about Parker & Sage, we must be watching 2 different shows. I understand your point don't get me wrong but Jack is the main problem. Allow Carley to have a life with a man other than himself, he has a wife. |
NoNuke4me |
Quote princessvcb: 1st lets address acholism is a sickness then address that, jack WANT HIS CAKE & ICE CREAM TOO this is not about Parker & Sage, we must be watching 2 different shows. I understand your point don't get me wrong but Jack is the main problem. Allow Carley to have a life with a man other than himself, he has a wife. I can't speak for anyone else here, but I would not leave my kids with an alcoholic who is off the wagon. Maybe if they were sobber for X amount of time I would but not when there in the shape Carly is in. Craig needs to but out and let Carly's family help her and yes I also include Jack as family. When you share children your always connected and Jack and Carly will always have a connection as long as there is a breath in one of their child's lungs. What is everyone suppose to do treat Carly with kit gloves and let her heal at her own pace? Heck no you have to shock an alcoholic and bring them back to reality with a shot of realism not acting like everything is okay. Of course Carly doesn't want Jack to know she is drinking because he won't cut her any slack like everyone else is doing. Jack isn't the problem, in fact Jack is probably the solution if you can get Craig out of the picture. |
Valinator1 |
Quote keytonblows: what gives Jack the right to drill Carly? Lets examine this question. There is only one good answer I can give and that is Parker and Sage. Hello!!!! she is the person who is taking care of Jack's children. If she is to drunk to care for them and they get hurt or even worse because of her drinking people would be all over Jack for not stepping in to say something. If Jack takes the kids then people get all over him for taking the kids. If Jack steps in and tries to help Carly even if that means drilling her then he is the bad guy. So regardless what Jack does he is the bad guy. I say give her HELLLLL Jack, it's your kids she is raising and doing a sloppy job of it. I'd just take the kids if I was Jack. I agree with you regarding Jack, but I think Carly is gonna have to really hit rock bottom before she stops drinking. I think there should be some type of intervention at Carly's. God knows I don't have enough fingers in my hands telling me how many times Carly has said she's gonna stop. I think Jack should take the kids NOW, because nothing is working and god knows Craig isn't helping. I think he might be making matters worse...Again there has to be some intervention or a rehab. I'd prefer an intervention because rehabs have been played out on soaps for so many times. |
pjmb |
Quote NoNuke4me: Quote princessvcb: 1st lets address acholism is a sickness then address that, jack WANT HIS CAKE & ICE CREAM TOO this is not about Parker & Sage, we must be watching 2 different shows. I understand your point don't get me wrong but Jack is the main problem. Allow Carley to have a life with a man other than himself, he has a wife. I can't speak for anyone else here, but I would not leave my kids with an alcoholic who is off the wagon. Maybe if they were sobber for X amount of time I would but not when there in the shape Carly is in. Craig needs to but out and let Carly's family help her and yes I also include Jack as family. When you share children your always connected and Jack and Carly will always have a connection as long as there is a breath in one of their child's lungs. What is everyone suppose to do treat Carly with kit gloves and let her heal at her own pace? Heck no you have to shock an alcoholic and bring them back to reality with a shot of realism not acting like everything is okay. Of course Carly doesn't want Jack to know she is drinking because he won't cut her any slack like everyone else is doing. Jack isn't the problem, in fact Jack is probably the solution if you can get Craig out of the picture. I agree with you. Jack has a right to drill Carly if he thinks there is a problem that will affect his kids. Someone should put the kids welfare first and at this point Carly is obviously unable to. She desperately needs an intervention. 
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dwebster |
Jack has every reason to be concerned where his children are concerned. Drinking is a serious problem. So far as to who she sees, goes into business with, etc. is certainly none of Jack's business. |
classymomma |
No he does not have the right to drill her or talk to her the way he does. I don't know why she puts up with it. Trying to live up to mr. holier-than-thou standards is a big part of her problem. Taking the children away realistically will not help; it only causes more problems. All that stuff you talking sounds good in theory but the reality is removing a child from his/her parents especially a mother is not good. And I'm sick of these soap opera parents who use their children as leverage to control the ex-spouse that they chose in the first place. It's weak and tired. Meg did it and it backfired on her. Jack left so that he could have a peaceful life, do that then. The only thing he needs to discuss with Carly is what time can I pick the kids up, etc. Her life off is limits. Having kids together does not give someone the right to be up in yo face 24/7. I mean every time she turns around there's disapproving Jack. Let's face it even his vampy wife sees it. He made his decision deal with it. Let Craig take care of Carly and Jack take care of his kids with her. Know where to draw the line. It can be done. I see it every day. |
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classymomma |
Quote pjmb: Quote NoNuke4me: Quote princessvcb: 1st lets address acholism is a sickness then address that, jack WANT HIS CAKE & ICE CREAM TOO this is not about Parker & Sage, we must be watching 2 different shows. I understand your point don't get me wrong but Jack is the main problem. Allow Carley to have a life with a man other than himself, he has a wife. I can't speak for anyone else here, but I would not leave my kids with an alcoholic who is off the wagon. Maybe if they were sobber for X amount of time I would but not when there in the shape Carly is in. Craig needs to but out and let Carly's family help her and yes I also include Jack as family. When you share children your always connected and Jack and Carly will always have a connection as long as there is a breath in one of their child's lungs. What is everyone suppose to do treat Carly with kit gloves and let her heal at her own pace? Heck no you have to shock an alcoholic and bring them back to reality with a shot of realism not acting like everything is okay. Of course Carly doesn't want Jack to know she is drinking because he won't cut her any slack like everyone else is doing. Jack isn't the problem, in fact Jack is probably the solution if you can get Craig out of the picture. I agree with you. Jack has a right to drill Carly if he thinks there is a problem that will affect his kids. Someone should put the kids welfare first and at this point Carly is obviously unable to. She desperately needs an intervention. If the person is the parent, I would leave his/her kid with them. Keeping the child away is not helping matters. Taking the kids away will break an alcoholic and not in a good way. If people really care then there's a way to do things but not that. You don't walk away when the person you supposedly love is down. But then that's the way of soap opera land because that type of behavior is foreign to me and my world. When Meg left Paul when he was committed, that was the cruelest thing a wife could ever do. A spouse like that ain't trustworthy. You can't trust them to be there when the going gets tough and believe me, in marriage, it will. |
nonniepat |
Jack has every right to be concerned about his kids being apart of Carly's home while she is drinking. I think though that he is concerned for Carly too and not just as the mother of his children either. Deep down Jack still loves Carly...he only left her and then married Janet because he can't trust Carly. Don't agree with him there but he did leave and remarry. I don't like the way he talks to Carly or treats her either and I cringe whenever I hear him berate her. But the question is whether he is justifed......yes he is they are his kids and as long as she's drinking though kids may be in danger. What if Carly's hands had slipped on the wheel the other day and not just her foot and instead of heading towards Craig with the car she was headed straight for Parker? Not a pleasant thought but that is why Jack is justified in drilling her. |
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EVSCNB |
Quote keytonblows: what gives Jack the right to drill Carly? Lets examine this question. There is only one good answer I can give and that is Parker and Sage. Hello!!!! she is the person who is taking care of Jack's children. If she is to drunk to care for them and they get hurt or even worse because of her drinking people would be all over Jack for not stepping in to say something. If Jack takes the kids then people get all over him for taking the kids. If Jack steps in and tries to help Carly even if that means drilling her then he is the bad guy. So regardless what Jack does he is the bad guy. I say give her HELLLLL Jack, it's your kids she is raising and doing a sloppy job of it. I'd just take the kids if I was Jack. Are you serious??! If he has concerns about Carly's drinking then address it privately and with some civility. However, he does not have the right to question everything she does and who she sees. If that is the case he should have stayed with Carly and just sleep with Janet on the side. He is out of line. |
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princessvcb |
i luv the responses, i totally agree if its about the children then address their well being, not carly's peesonal life, carly didn't approve of janet but he married her so what gives him the right to decide who she dates, or better yet whether or not she could date anyone!! |
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keytonblows |
Quote classymomma: No he does not have the right to drill her or talk to her the way he does. I don't know why she puts up with it. Trying to live up to mr. holier-than-thou standards is a big part of her problem. Taking the children away realistically will not help; it only causes more problems. All that stuff you talking sounds good in theory but the reality is removing a child from his/her parents especially a mother is not good. And I'm sick of these soap opera parents who use their children as leverage to control the ex-spouse that they chose in the first place. It's weak and tired. Meg did it and it backfired on her. Jack left so that he could have a peaceful life, do that then. The only thing he needs to discuss with Carly is what time can I pick the kids up, etc. Her life off is limits. Having kids together does not give someone the right to be up in yo face 24/7. I mean every time she turns around there's disapproving Jack. Let's face it even his vampy wife sees it. He made his decision deal with it. Let Craig take care of Carly and Jack take care of his kids with her. Know where to draw the line. It can be done. I see it every day. I do not like the way he's treating her. I don't really like him anymore. Basically I can't stand those attitudes. I miss the as the world turns show when they had the screenwriters writing for them. It was good and more realistic but still had the soap opera factor. The truth is I barely watch it anymore and when I do I'm rewarded with the ever judgemental behavior of one of them Snyders and I immediately regret tuning in to the show and quickly turn the channel. Although I do like when they get taste of their own medicine but I don't see that often enough so I guess I'll keep turning that channel. This blows my mind, how about the welfare of the children? Carly didn't even remember running over Craig. What if she passes out and burns the house down? Or she gets drunk and forgets to go pick up Sage who is waiting for her. How can anyone justify allowing kids to stay with a parent who is so far out of control like Carly is, that is just crazy. If a service worker had seen some of the things Carly has been doing lately because of her drinking they would have pulled Sage out of that house lickity split. There is a difference between Janet and Craig, Jack didn't marry a woman with a rap sheet a mile long. He has every right to be concerned about Craig because he knows what Craig is capable of. |
BiRanger |
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