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Quote wannazach: When in a romantic partnership with a single mother, and you are acting as that childs second mother and that the child loves you and would be hurt to loose you. And that child would be hurt if her mother was hurt. You should know how to keep your pants on if you care for that child at all. That is deliberately hurting that child for your own sexual desires. I still don't see it as Maggie purposely hurting Miranda. What you cited above about parents and cheating happens often in the real world, and some couples can work through it. Others can't. I happen to believe that Bianca and Maggie are a couple that can work through it, especially since they are fictional. You don't. Oh well. We disagree again. |
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Quote wannazach: When in a romantic partnership with a single mother, and you are acting as that childs second mother and that the child loves you and would be hurt to loose you. And that child would be hurt if her mother was hurt. You should know how to keep your pants on if you care for that child at all. That is deliberately hurting that child for your own sexual desires. And deeply lowers you character in the eyes of all who know an love Bianca and Miranda both on the show and the viewers as well Obviously Wannazach, "lust" means a lot more to some people than love does. Personally, I think you and I lean toward the "love" route. IMO, Lust is for the moment! Love is for a lifetime! |
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Quote BellaMia: Quote wannazach: When in a romantic partnership with a single mother, and you are acting as that childs second mother and that the child loves you and would be hurt to loose you. And that child would be hurt if her mother was hurt. You should know how to keep your pants on if you care for that child at all. That is deliberately hurting that child for your own sexual desires. And deeply lowers you character in the eyes of all who know an love Bianca and Miranda both on the show and the viewers as well Obviously Wannazach, "lust" means a lot more to some people than love does. Personally, I think you and I lean toward the "love" route. So rude... That's all I have to say there. Presumptuous, condemning rudeness. |
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Quote BellaMia: Quote wannazach: When in a romantic partnership with a single mother, and you are acting as that childs second mother and that the child loves you and would be hurt to loose you. And that child would be hurt if her mother was hurt. You should know how to keep your pants on if you care for that child at all. That is deliberately hurting that child for your own sexual desires. And deeply lowers you character in the eyes of all who know an love Bianca and Miranda both on the show and the viewers as well Obviously Wannazach, "lust" means a lot more to some people than love does. Personally, I think you and I lean toward the "love" route. IMO, Lust is for the moment! Love is for a lifetime! I think ... if I understand u 2 right .... I agree. When u are in a relationship with a single parent ... you are in a relationship with the child as well!!! You have an obligation to give them the best life. And cheating is not doing it for them!! You roped that child into believe that you are going to be there for them the rest of their life and give them the "home-life" they need. But when u decide to disrespect that union by going outside of the relationship for support .. emotional or sexual ... you just basically slapped the kid in the face. This actually is true as well with your own children. You owe it to them to put those wander-lust feelings aside and suppress them for the children. If you're totally unhappy ... you need to respect yourself and the father/mother of your children to leave the relationship with respect and not cause you want a few rolls in the hay with someone. You split amicably!! So you can maintain a healthy parental bond for the children. I don't think in any manner ... sleeping with someone else while you are the parent or guardian of a child benefits the child if you are still in the relationship with the other parent. IMO ... Maggie was WRONG WRONG WRONG ... JMO. And yes ... this might be strict .. but I have personal standards I abide by. |
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Quote Stayler: Quote BellaMia: Quote wannazach: When in a romantic partnership with a single mother, and you are acting as that childs second mother and that the child loves you and would be hurt to loose you. And that child would be hurt if her mother was hurt. You should know how to keep your pants on if you care for that child at all. That is deliberately hurting that child for your own sexual desires. And deeply lowers you character in the eyes of all who know an love Bianca and Miranda both on the show and the viewers as well Obviously Wannazach, "lust" means a lot more to some people than love does. Personally, I think you and I lean toward the "love" route. So rude... That's all I have to say there. Presumptuous, condemning rudeness. Well, aren't we the pot calling the kettle black??? We all get along quite well on this board, even those with differences of opinions. We like and respect each other (and our varying opinions). You seem to be the one who popped on this board and started causing trouble by "attacking" others here and assuming you KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT EVERYBODY! Who died and made you Queen anyway? Presumptious, condemning rudeness is a great self-description of yourself. I hope you memorize it! |
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Quote SOAPKID: I think ... if I understand u 2 right .... I agree. When u are in a relationship with a single parent ... you are in a relationship with the child as well!!! You have an obligation to give them the best life. And cheating is not doing it for them!! You roped that child into believe that you are going to be there for them the rest of their life and give them the "home-life" they need. But when u decide to disrespect that union by going outside of the relationship for support .. emotional or sexual ... you just basically slapped the kid in the face. This actually is true as well with your own children. You owe it to them to put those wander-lust feelings aside and suppress them for the children. If you're totally unhappy ... you need to respect yourself and the father/mother of your children to leave the relationship with respect and not cause you want a few rolls in the hay with someone. You split amicably!! So you can maintain a healthy parental bond for the children. I don't think in any manner ... sleeping with someone else while you are the parent or guardian of a child benefits the child if you are still in the relationship with the other parent. IMO ... Maggie was WRONG WRONG WRONG ... JMO. And yes ... this might be strict .. but I have personal standards I abide by. And I certainly wasn't arguing against any of that. I stated that Maggie did not set out to hurt Bianca or Miranda, and I stick by that. Plenty of people have worked out a situtation like Bianca and Maggie's. Others couldn't. That's my main point on that subject. |
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BellaMia: Well, aren't we the pot calling the kettle black??? Nope, it's not...because I've never been rude to anybody on this board. Stating stuff about a character is not being rude to anybody. We all get along quite well on this board, even those with differences of opinions. We like and respect each other (and our varying opinions). You seem to be the one who popped on this board and started causing trouble by "attacking" others here and assuming you KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT EVERYBODY! Don't make me out to be the bad guy. I haven't attacked anyone. You and your Zoe army are the ones who attack me and other people for even mentioning Maggie's name or BAM. To say that I have attcked anyone is outright lies...something I'm seeing you do often. Who died and made you Queen anyway? No, that's a question you should be asking yourself. Presumptious, condemning rudeness is a great self-description of yourself. I hope you memorize it! Don't have to. I coined it for you. Embrace it. Because it sure isn't me. |
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Quote Stayler: Quote SOAPKID: I think ... if I understand u 2 right .... I agree. When u are in a relationship with a single parent ... you are in a relationship with the child as well!!! You have an obligation to give them the best life. And cheating is not doing it for them!! You roped that child into believe that you are going to be there for them the rest of their life and give them the "home-life" they need. But when u decide to disrespect that union by going outside of the relationship for support .. emotional or sexual ... you just basically slapped the kid in the face. This actually is true as well with your own children. You owe it to them to put those wander-lust feelings aside and suppress them for the children. If you're totally unhappy ... you need to respect yourself and the father/mother of your children to leave the relationship with respect and not cause you want a few rolls in the hay with someone. You split amicably!! So you can maintain a healthy parental bond for the children. I don't think in any manner ... sleeping with someone else while you are the parent or guardian of a child benefits the child if you are still in the relationship with the other parent. IMO ... Maggie was WRONG WRONG WRONG ... JMO. And yes ... this might be strict .. but I have personal standards I abide by. And I certainly wasn't arguing against any of that. I stated that Maggie did not set out to hurt Bianca or Miranda, and I stick by that. Plenty of people have worked out a situtation like Bianca and Maggie's. Others couldn't. That's my main point on that subject. Well, you have a right to ur opinion ... I was actually responding to the other 2 posters ... i actually didn't get to read your post at that time. |
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Quote Stayler: BellaMia: Well, aren't we the pot calling the kettle black??? Nope, it's not...because I've never been rude to anybody on this board. Stating stuff about a character is not being rude to anybody. We all get along quite well on this board, even those with differences of opinions. We like and respect each other (and our varying opinions). You seem to be the one who popped on this board and started causing trouble by "attacking" others here and assuming you KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT EVERYBODY! Don't make me out to be the bad guy. I haven't attacked anyone. You and your Zoe army are the ones who attack me and other people for even mentioning Maggie's name or BAM. To say that I have attcked anyone is outright lies...something I'm seeing you do often. Who died and made you Queen anyway? No, that's a question you should be asking yourself. Presumptious, condemning rudeness is a great self-description of yourself. I hope you memorize it! Don't have to. I coined it for you. Embrace it. Because it sure isn't me. Word Stayler!!!,I don't know how many times i've been shot down I hope Bianca comes back soon and I will continue to hope for a Bam reunion and no 6 mth psuedo-romance with Zoe is going to change that.I and alot of other fans didn't like the character and have a right to state it and the facts,which completely get ignored among the Zoe love.I don't mean to start an arguement here but i'm saying this out of frustration,because the truth is your too hard on non-Zoe fans. |
benice![]() |
"Sometimes it not what you say but how many times you say it." |
lisa-j![]() |
How many times can ppl say Maggie doesn't deserve Bianca and that she's trash etc.If ppl wouldn't insult Bam so much me and Stayler wouldn't have to defend them so much. |
BellaMia![]() |
Quote Stayler: Quote SOAPKID: I think ... if I understand u 2 right .... I agree. When u are in a relationship with a single parent ... you are in a relationship with the child as well!!! You have an obligation to give them the best life. And cheating is not doing it for them!! You roped that child into believe that you are going to be there for them the rest of their life and give them the "home-life" they need. But when u decide to disrespect that union by going outside of the relationship for support .. emotional or sexual ... you just basically slapped the kid in the face. This actually is true as well with your own children. You owe it to them to put those wander-lust feelings aside and suppress them for the children. If you're totally unhappy ... you need to respect yourself and the father/mother of your children to leave the relationship with respect and not cause you want a few rolls in the hay with someone. You split amicably!! So you can maintain a healthy parental bond for the children. I don't think in any manner ... sleeping with someone else while you are the parent or guardian of a child benefits the child if you are still in the relationship with the other parent. IMO ... Maggie was WRONG WRONG WRONG ... JMO. And yes ... this might be strict .. but I have personal standards I abide by. And I certainly wasn't arguing against any of that. I stated that Maggie did not set out to hurt Bianca or Miranda, and I stick by that. Plenty of people have worked out a situtation like Bianca and Maggie's. Others couldn't. That's my main point on that subject. You must be living in a totally different world, my dear. I've never known ANYONE who was cheated on that wasn't DEEPLY HURT by their partner's cheating! She didn't give a rat's petootie about hurting Binks (or Miranda) and only thought of herself. That's not the way "normal" people treat "the love of their life" (in your words). Personally, I would rather see Binks move on to someone new, and if she has the "backbone" I think she has, she WILL find someone new and let Maggie rot in Paris. Maggie had her chance and blew it. She thought more of her quickie little "indiscretion" than she did of the "love of her life" as you call her. Why WOULD Binks even want someone she can't even trust, and especially someone who also hurt Miranda (the true love of Bianca's life)! Let's give Binks the credit she deserves for NOT putting Miranda in that situation again (no matter how Binks feels, one way or the other)! |
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But you were angry at her for not having a relationship with Zoe for similar reasons-Miranda,that's kinda contradicting yourself.Ppl aren't perfect especially in soaps.If Bam don't come back at least give her a real love interest-look at ATWT now that's how it's done. |
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For heaven's sake! People get back together after a cheating episode all the time! They also get back together after initially thinking the relationship could never work out. And this is in real life... in soaps, they could all DIE and it could still happen! |
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Quote lisa-j: But you were angry at her for not having a relationship with Zoe for similar reasons-Miranda,that's kinda contradicting yourself.Ppl aren't perfect especially in soaps.If Bam don't come back at least give her a real love interest-look at ATWT now that's how it's done. I was angry with Binks for saying Zoe "wasn't capable of being a parent to Miranda" during her last visit. It had NOTHING to do with THEIR relationship. I felt her remarks were a total insult to both the Zoe character AND the entire TG community. It was basically like saying, if you are transgendered, you are incapable of being a good parent. IMO, Zoe would be a wonderful parent to any child, and likely because she didn't have a good childhood because she never had her father's approval. She would WANT her child to be loved and accepted, no matter what. And, I believe I just said in my previous post that Bianca should "move on" to someone new and that I hoped she has the "backbone" to do so. Would I like to see Bianca and Zoe back together? Of course! But if not Bianca and Zoe, then I hope Binks finds a NEW love rather than return to one who hurt her so deeply! JMO |
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